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BE CANDID
Candor builds credibility; credibility builds trust; trust builds
acceptance. Be candid about the affect of your project or proposal
and your vested self-interest. Don't beat around the bushes. Admit
it if you'll create a traffic nuisance, loss of use of land, odors,
or whatever. Tell the truth, tell it well, tell it early, and tell
it yourself. Let the bad news come from you, not your adversaries.
SHORT ANSWERS
A straight question deserves a straight answer. The audience welcomes
phrases such as, The simple answer is orThe short
answer to your question is... Most presentations are too long.
Seldom does anyone leave a meeting wishing that the speech or presentation
were longer. Say less, and say it better. And in a tense or difficult
setting, very few audience members will be won over by being talked
into submission. Conversely, it is possible to score points by listening
an audience into submission.
BRIDGE
Bridge to your key messages again and again. Make the bottom-line
of your presentation unmistakably clear.
EMPATHIZE
Listen closely to the intent of the question. What emotions are
driving their query? Anger? Fear? Distrust? Victimization? Make
certain your answer begins with an acknowledgment of their feelings.
Many times a person will ask a technical question driven by an emotional
concern. Address the emotion first. Then tackle the technical aspect.
Most people who have taken time out of their busy schedule to sit
through your presentation simply want to be heard. They want to
know their concerns are being registered. Seldom do they appreciate
you straightening them out on their facts and data. Rather,
they want to know, Do you care? Show them you understand
(or respect) their feelings. Be a good listener.
AVOID DEBATING
During the Q&A session don't debate audience members. There's
a skill to taking questions in such a manner as to not end up in
a back and forth with individual audience members. After three or
four questions it is acceptable to limit the participant to one
more question in the interest of using everyone's time wisely. Another
option acknowledge that the interrogator seems to have a number
of detailed questions and invite them to meet with you at the break
or after the meeting to enable you to give them the in depth answers
their questions deserve.
USE OF EXPERTS
If you are using a table of experts to help field questions and
comments in the Q&A, create openings for them to showcase their
knowledge and their different approach or style. But make sure they
are trained in public dialogue and know how to deliver the team's
key messages. If a panelist wishes to intervene or offer a comment,
they should signal their intent to the moderator or lead speaker
through eye contact or a small gesture. Panelists must avoid the
temptation to over-answer a question or to give multiple answers.
Keep it short and simple.
AIM FOR THE MIDDLE
Remember to aim for the audience in the middle. You will not win
over everyone. You cannot please some people. Acknowledge that there
will be differing opinions. It's okay to disagree. When you press
your point, put it in terms that are meaningful to the center audience;
those who have yet to make up their minds are the fence sitters.
ANECDOTES & STORIES
Demonstrate your awareness of who is in the audience and what is
on their minds. Call them by name if possible. Mention discussions
you'sve had with audience members before the meeting or at a break.
Use anecdotes and stories to reflect to the audience that you have
given serious consideration to who they are, how your project or
presentation affects them, and what's on their minds.
LISTEN
When you fail to listen, to empathize, and to bridge to your key
messages you begin to lose. By losing you may in fact be certifying
an anti-you union among those present at the meeting.
Failure to listen and care can make a difficult situation much worse.
You may energize and activate a constituency who will make it their
business to fight you at every turn, to test your pain threshold.
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